After I Leave You
The Complete Guide for the People You Love.
Your purchase includes one fillable PDF file delivered to your email immediately after checkout. Update it as your life changes and store it somewhere your family can find it when they need it.
The print-ready PDF is your pen-and-paper option. It is formatted for standard 8.5 by 11 letter-size paper and prints cleanly on any home printer. Take it to a print shop and have it spiral-bound so it lies flat while you write. Fill it out at your kitchen table, in a quiet afternoon, one section at a time. Many people find that writing by hand makes this feel more personal and intentional. Most print shops charge just a few dollars to print and bind the whole guide.
Once downloaded, the file is yours permanently. No subscriptions, no expiration dates, no limits on how many times you print or update them. Review the Word version once a year and after any major life event, and your family will always have current, accurate information.
If you run into any issues accessing your files after purchase, contact us at info@lielamariefuller.com and we will resolve it right away. Please be sure to check your spam folder if you do not see the files in your inbox.
When someone dies without a plan, the people they leave behind face two crises at the same time. The grief they expected. And the chaos nobody warned them about.
No will anyone can find. No record of insurance policies. No passwords. No instructions for the funeral. No idea which accounts exist, what debts are owed, or who needs to be called. Families spend the worst weeks of their lives on hold with banks and government agencies, making major financial decisions under pressure with almost no information.
After I Leave You was written to make sure that never happens to your family.
This comprehensive fill-in guide walks you through every piece of information your loved ones will need after your death, organized by section and written directly to the people who will be reading it when you are gone. It is not a simple checklist. It is a complete record of your life, your wishes, and your legacy.
What is inside:
The First 72 Hours checklist so your family knows exactly what to do and in what order during the most overwhelming days. Every financial account, including banks, investments, retirement accounts, and cryptocurrency. Every insurance policy with claim instructions. Your complete digital life, including passwords, social media wishes, cloud storage, and device access. Legal documents, including will, trust, power of attorney, guardianship, and advance directives. Business interests, intellectual property, royalties, and ongoing contracts. Real estate, vehicles, and physical property. Pet care and dependent care instructions. Funeral and burial wishes down to the music and the people you do and do not want speaking. A complete obituary worksheet for you to draft in advance. A sentimental item distribution list to prevent family conflict. Letters to your spouse, children, grandchildren, and closest friends. Family history, stories, recipes, and traditions. An executor checklist with government agency phone numbers and credit bureau contacts. An update log so your family always has the current version.
Also included is a full section written for the family reading it after a loss, with guidance on navigating grief and logistics at the same time.
Fill it out. Update it once a year. Store it somewhere your family can find it.
This is not a morbid task. It is one of the most loving things you will ever do.